Tuesday, April 28, 2015

Turn Police Stations and Prisons into Counseling and Moral Uplift Centers


T
he title may astonish many… Is it a crazy idea? Is it a dream or illusion? What is the connection between morality and police stations? Why trying it with police stations? Is it a possibility or just a theory? No, it is definitely a possibility.
I am not proposing a vague theory here, but am writing this with full confidence. I have with me the experience of counseling at least 50 people and successfully changing their life-style and attitude. All your doubts will be cleared and you will be convinced, provided you go through the article till the end patiently and without any prejudice.
First, what will be the result if the project is carried out?
There is nothing to lose either materially or otherwise. If it works out successfully, though an ideally peaceful and fear-free state is at a distance, we can at least enjoy the following benefits:
·  The present trend of prisons producing bigger criminals out of smaller criminals will come to an end. Instead, reformed citizens contributing to the establishment of peace and justice in the country will be coming out of prisons. They can be engaged in more constructive works.
·  The governments can save money spent on maintaining law and order, maintaining police stations and prisons and their inmates and staffs.
Why Police-stations and Prisons?  
Though crime and evil are spread all over, our focus is on police stations and prisons because:
·  These are the places that are meant to be used for correcting and controlling crime in the country. Though government, judiciary and other authorities are there to ensure peace and justice for the public, the policemen are the people who directly work to control crime.
·  Police stations are places of security and hope for sections of the public that are scared of, or are affected by, crime.
·  These are the places wherein captured criminals are lodged together. While many criminals roam free outside, those imprisoned are the ones directly involved in crime.
·  These are the places where criminals are found disengaged from their routine work and environment and are available for open consultation.
The Need
In every police station we can find tables and charts depicting the statistics regarding the alarming increase of crimes. These are, of course, reported data; we can only guess as to the unreported ones. Needless to say, people are frustrated with the situation. Day by day our existence is becoming awful. Now almost all of us want to do something to change the situation, but we do not know how to go about it. The initiative which I am proposing is a step in this direction. It is not a new one, but it is, nevertheless, a time-tested one, which is taught by our own Creator! The initiative proposed will be a part of establishing dharma on earth which is the common goal of all religions.
The Cause
If asked as to why crime and evils are on the rise, we could blame the government, the politicians, the economic conditions, social and cultural background, and so on. But one of the main reasons for the growth of crime in society is the ever-deepening moral crisis.
To control this, we have to correct immorality among the individuals that make-up our society. Is it possible?  Yes, it is possible, if we understand certain basic facts and act upon that understanding.
Usually we human beings often forget three undeniable, fundamental, truths:
Ø  That the whole of mankind are descendants of the first parents on earth and all of us belong to the same family irrespective of our color, language, country, or period in which we live.
Ø  That above us there exists a Creator and Cherisher of ours who is also the Lord and Sustainer of the entire universe.
Ø  That we are answerable to our Master Who has created us. That is, our Creator will judge us for our deeds, and He will reward us for our good deeds and punish us for our bad deeds.
If we want to reform any individual or society, we have to remind them about the aforementioned truths and convince them about their accountability for their deeds on earth. If a man has to be righteous, he should essentially have a proper and clear concept of God. Only then can a true sense of accountability be realized by him.
It is natural to expect your good work to be recognized and rewarded. With laws,you get punished when you violate them. The law does not reward you for being good. Why would a person be motivated to do good deeds?
One may ask, if laws can prevent from doing bad deeds, isn’t that enough? We must note that, if man has to fear only the law, he will find a way to tackle the law. We see that happening today resulting in the increase of crimes.
When man realizes his accountability to God for his deeds, it will motivate him to stay good and keep away from bad.
If the concept of God is wrongly taught to man, a reformation is never possible, for this misinformation directly affects the seriousness of man’s belief in his accountability before God. Implanting the proper concept of God in the human mind is, therefore, the first step in the human reformation process.
Today, it can be seen that right from childhood, lifeless and senseless objects are shown to man and are explained to him as gods. People worship graves (e.g., darghas), statues, photos, monuments, symbols, animals, sun, moon, and stars etc., as gods even though our reason does not accept them as the real God. People, irrespective of the religions they belong to, fall victims to this practice of their ancestors. Thus, generations are nurtured with a corrupt conception of God and thereby do not have even the slightest sense of accountability of their deeds. They dare to commit any kind of sins and crimes without any hesitation. Thus, sins accumulate in society uncontrollably. This is the most important cause of sins and crimes and their perpetuation in society.
But this fact is ignored and left unattended by the authorities of the nation who are responsible for the control of crimes. As a nation interested in establishing peace around us, we should initiate researches and action plans to arrest the growing moral crisis on priority basis. Unless we keep aside all prejudices arising out of our affiliations to different religions, races, regions and languages and take positive, constructive, steps in this direction, the future of the nation will be catastrophic.
The Solution
For the moral uplift of society, we cannot ignore the role of the messengers of God who came to India and elsewhere in the world and the Holy Books sent through them. We know that during their times they reformed their respective people or nations successfully and established dharma on earth. The reason behind their success was that they followed the guidance from God Almighty and adhered to it. After a comparative study of these scriptures and the sayings of those noble souls, we arrive at the following facts:
God almighty has been sending His messengers at different periods of time to different parts of the world to preach about the real concept of God and about the purpose of man’s life on earth. These messengers are known as ‘Rishis’ in ancient India and are known as ‘Prophets’ in Christianity and Islam. All of them taught their respective people about the unity of mankind and the unity of God.
They taught the people that the Creator and Cherisher of this universe is one and only one and He alone deserves worship. Except Him, everything else in the world is His creation and none of His creations deserve any worship. They also cautioned people strictly against worshipping any of His creations or associating partners to Him as this practice leads to growth of sins, division in humanity, spread of superstitions, exploitation in the name of God by middlemen etc. All of them taught their respective people to worship the Creator directly without any middlemen, formalities or spending of any money.
Traces of this can be seen in the below quoted examples from the holy scriptures and sayings of people revered by people of major religions of our nation:
About Oneness of God
Brahma Sutra of Hinduism:
“Ekam Brahm, dvitiya naste neh na naste Kinchan.” [
“There is only one God, not the second; Not at all, not at all, not in the least bit.”]
“Ma cid anyad vi sansata sakhayo ma rishanyata” [“O friends, do not worship anybody but Him, the Divine One. Praise Him alone.”] [Rigveda 5:1:81]
"I am the Lord, and there is no other; apart from me there is no God." [Bible: Isaiah 45:5]
“There is one God, Eternal Truth is His Name; Maker of all things, fearing nothing and at enmity with nothing, Timeless is His Image; Not begotten, being of His own Being: By the grace of the Guru, made known to men.”
[Guru Granth Sahib - Guru Nanak]

Say: He is Allah, the One! Allah, the eternally besought of all! He begetteth not nor was begotten.
There is none like Him.” [Holy Qur’an 112: 1-3]
“Na tasya pratima asti ” “There is no image of Him” [Yajurveda 32:3]
“Shudhama poapvidham.” [‘He is bodiless and pure.’ [Yajurveda 40: 8]
"Remember the former things, those of long ago; I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me.”  [The Bible, Isaiah 46: 9]
“And there is none comparable unto Him.” [The Qur’an, 112: 4]
Warning Against Worshipping False gods – i.e., ascribing partners to Him or worshipping anything other than Him
“Andhatama pravishanti ye asambhuti mupaste” [They enter darkness, those who worship the natural things” (Air, water, fire, etc.)] - Yajurveda 40: 9
“(One of the Commandments is this that) you shall not have any other gods before me." – The Bible, Exodus 20: 3
“Indeed, Allah does not forgive association with Him, but He forgives what is less than that for whom He wills. And he who associates others with Allah has certainly gone far astray.” [Qur’an 4:116]
Besides oneness of God, the messengers of God preached about the purpose of our existence here. That is, the present temporary life is a test in which our deeds are recorded. After a certain period, the whole world will be destroyed one day and all human beings will be resurrected back to life again for judging their actions on earth. After the judgment, depending upon the weight of their good and bad deeds, people will be sent to paradise or hell wherein they will live eternally.
By reminding people about the Creator’s plan of rewarding the righteous with Paradise of eternal pleasure and punishing the sinners with hell fire, the messengers of God reformed their respective people who were going astray and gradually established dharma in their region. The holy books of God convey the message that the life after death is a reality. To avoid elaboration let me limit my quoting only from the Qur’an which is known as the last one in the series of divine books that have reached mankind. It has many arguments like this:
“Does man not consider that We created him from a [mere] sperm-drop – then at once he is a clear adversary?  And he presents for Us an example and forgets his [own] creation. He says, ‘Who will give life to bones while they are disintegrated?’ Say, ‘He will give them life who produced them the first time; and He is, of all creation, Knowing.’” (Quran 36: 77-79)

It further says:

“Is not He who created the heavens and the earth able to create the likes of them? Yes, [it is so]; and He is the Knowing Creator. His command is only when He intends a thing that He says to it,’Be,’ and it is.” (Qur’an 36: 81-82)
It convinces us logically that the One Who has created us for the first time out of nothing can create us again to judge our deeds to reward us or punish us.
The Method
After studying the background and psychology of criminals and arranging open conversations with them, we can counsel them to correct their mindset. By reminding them about the aforementioned facts in the proper way, God willing, we can expect a positive attitudinal change in them. Further, we can develop them by teaching adequate meditation and prayers. We should educate them in such a way that when they leave prison, they are morally strong enough to face the immoral environment outside. We should train them in such a way that they will become volunteers in spreading peace, love and justice in the country.
Conclusion
By implementing this project, we can achieve the real purpose of establishing police stations and prisons. They are supposed to produce reformed citizens out of prisoners. Just frightening, punishing and torturing the criminals will only create feelings of everlasting vengeance in them against the people affected by their crimes. If implemented, the prisons will no longer be a place which converts small criminals into bigger criminals, and no more the starting point of crime-networking and plotting as is found today.
Suggestions
1.       To implement the proposal, House of Peace can offer a practical demonstration before the concerned authorities, supply a team of counselors, and train those who volunteer to become such counselors.

2.       This project will not be carried out under the banner of any religion. There need not be any apprehension that this will lead to any religious conversions. Our objective is simply the conversion of sinning souls to purified ones, and this by reminding them about certain realities about themselves, irrespective of their religious affiliation.

Saturday, April 4, 2015

Leggings….. Are there any harmful effects?

Leggings…..  Are there any harmful effects?

Leggings… the garment which is flourishing fast, mainly in cosmopolitan cities, is worn by women due to several reasons, for e.g. comfort of wearing, low price, to look attractive to others, to avoid being branded  as “backward” by colleagues and friends, to comply with fashion- trends etc. 

Well, is there anything wrong in wearing this?

Yes, there is. They are so tight and so closely attach to skin, that one may get skin itches depending upon the material used for this dress.

Are there any remedies to cure of any such skin infections?

Of course, they can be treated and cured with simple medicines available in the market.

Is there any other harm?

As they look so attractive, people of opposite gender may be tempted to make advances towards those who wear them. If the situations permit them, in some extreme cases, they may even rape and murder the victims. It is also possible that the victim (of rape) may get impregnated and as a result she may carry and deliver a child of an unknown father.

Are there any remedies or ways to counter them?

Yes there are many remedial measures to counter them as suggested by the “forward” thinkers and feminist activists.

They are:
-      The probable victims can learn self – defense techniques like karate, kungfu etc.
-      Can apply for police protection in advance.
-      Hold demos to create public awareness of the ‘fact’ that dressing as they wish is women’s right, but, men have to change their attitude towards them.
-      To avoid unwanted pregnancies, there are several measures one can resort to. There are multitudes of hospitals that support it. Even if the child birth happens, there are many orphanages and NGOs to take care of them.

Well, are there any other harms?

Yes, there are!  But they’re very scary, unavoidable and immensely harmful!

The harmful effects discussed earlier can be somehow managed and one can escape from the ill of them. But the effects we are going to discuss now are the ones which will continue eternally.

ETERNALLY?  HOW?

Those who ponder over the complex structure of this vast universe and realize man’s insignificant status here will definitely realize that the temporary life we live now is with a purpose as conveyed by the Messengers of God and the Holy Scriptures sent through them. They teach us that the whole world will come to an end one day. All the human beings, right from the first man to the last will be brought back to life (Resurrection) on the Day of Judgment and will be questioned for their deeds. People who have done good deeds and lived a life in accordance with God’s command will receive a reward and people who have disobeyed God will be punished.

The reward will be Heaven and the punishment will be Hell. The life in Heaven and Hell will be eternal and never-ending.

For peaceful existence of mankind in this world, God Almighty has commanded us to do certain things and they are known as good deeds (punya) and God has banned us from certain other deeds and they are known as bad deeds (paapa).

Latest in the serial of Messengers of God, to come to this world, is Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and the Holy scripture sent through him is Holy Quran.

As per the above resources, the Master of the universe prescribes a dress code and behavioral code for both men and women. Purpose of them is to protect the society as a whole and promote modest dressing and behavior. It creates a barrier between the sexes and allows us to conduct our lives with modesty, dignity and respect.  Any violation of this codes creates havoc, immorality and disorder in the society, and hence punishable by Him (God).

= Dress code for men is that they should cover their body; a bare-minimum for them is at least from the naval to the knees. The dress should not be tight or see-through either.

= For women, the dress must conceal the entire body except the face and the hands. It should not be see-through or tight either, that describes the size and shape of the body or even a part of it.

When women come in public for their studies, profession, shopping and other activities permitted by God, they have to compulsorily follow this dress code.

= As per the behavioral code, free mingling of women with men, other than the close relatives like husband, father, brother, son, uncle etc., is prohibited.

Sexual relationship is allowed only between husband (male) and wife (female).

= Any male –female sexual relationship beyond marriage bonds is strictly prohibited and hence severely punishable by God Almighty.

= Any kind of meeting, chatting, mingling or caressing with any stranger of opposite sex in privacy or even in public is illicit.

= It is the responsibility of the state to punish, in front of public, the culprits who commit adultery and theft.

As per the codes prescribed by God, not only leggings, any such dress that crosses the above limits and allures the opposite gender is prohibited in this world.
The transgressors may or may not get affected by the harmful effects mentioned above in this world. But they are sure to be caught for their offence on the Day of Judgment as everything is recorded in the system of God.
Even now, one can realize that every human brain carries the past records of life’s events and they cannot be erased by any method!
The Holy Quran says:
"So whoever does an atom’s weight of good, will see it; and whoever does an atom’s weight of evil will see it (too)." (Quran 99: 7, 8)

On that day every small and big offense will be exposed.  The very parts of body will speak against the offenders!

That Day, We will seal over their mouths, and their hands will speak to Us, and their feet will testify about what they used to earn. (Quran 36:65)

After weighing the deeds, Hell will be awarded for sinners and Paradise, for the people who followed God’s path. To know what Hell and Paradise are, go through the Holy Quran, the last revelation from God Almighty. For example please read the verses below:

Indeed, Hell has been lying in wait for the transgressors, a place of return, in which they will remain for ages [unending]. They will not taste therein [any] coolness or drink except scalding water and [foul] purulence -An appropriate recompense. (Quran 78:21-26)

And say, "The truth is from your Lord, so whoever wills - let him believe; and whoever wills - let him disbelieve." Indeed, We have prepared for the wrongdoers a fire whose walls will surround them. And if they call for relief, they will be relieved with water like murky oil, which scalds [their] faces. Wretched is the drink, and evil is the resting place. (Quran 18:29)  
As for those who had lead a life of discipline as commanded by God, they will be in eternal bliss…
Indeed, those who have believed and done righteous deeds - indeed, We will not allow to be lost the reward of any who did well in deeds. Those will have gardens of perpetual residence; beneath them rivers will flow. They will be adorned therein with bracelets of gold and will wear green garments of fine silk and brocade, reclining therein on adorned couches. Excellent is the reward, and good is the resting place. (Quran 18:30,31)  
Yes, brothers and sisters, we live here only once. Lets us correct our dress and our behavior suitably to reach the correct destination…that is Paradise!
"Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your [full] compensation on the Day of Resurrection. So he who is drawn away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise has attained [his desire]. And what is the life of this world except the enjoyment of delusion." (Quran 3:185)
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